This is my fear. I grew up with people like this and No, they were not family members. Even my grandmother who is 101 doesn't have that attitude. She grew up with attitudes and words that I don't necessarily care for, but when push comes to shove she has stopped when she learned more.
And if a women who is considered ancient by most standards can clue in...
Shouldn't the rest of you*
* and by you I mean anyone who still thinks like they are still living during Reconstruction... and I know that isn't my normal readers... and if you are NOT a normal reader and have issue.. tough shit. Recognize yourself for who you are. and grow.